❌ Not looking like their profile pic
❌ Checking their phone
❌ Making zero effort
❌ Not dressing up
❌ Attitude
❌ Arriving late
❌ Complaining
❌ X-rated innuendo
❌ Talking about their ex
❌ Checking out other people
❌ Emotional dumping
❌ Bragging
❌ Bad table manners
❌ Strong cologne/perfume
❌ Not asking questions / showing interest in you
❌ Expecting you to prove yourself to them
❌ Making false promises (“If you become my girlfriend, I’ll….”)
What else would you add?
I had a guy complain in texts that women often used him for a free meal, but when we finally met he kept asking if he could buy my next drink or if I’d like any food from the bar. I was so confused, and refused his offer because I assumed that’s what he classed as “used for a free meal”.