There’s a guy on Tinder who thinks his profile is hilarious.
He had a mate take a picture of him sitting on the toilet. Pants around the ankles. Beer in hand.
Now single women across Christchurch have seen his bare bum – and he can tell you whether they’re swiping right.
That guy doesn’t care whether he gets a match. It’s all a joke anyway.
But the women forced to look at his bum do mind.
They didn’t ask to see it. They’re not laughing in good fun; they’re laughing in horror. It’s stomach-churning.
And it’s driving women off the platform.
What guys like this don’t realize is the way they’re contributing to a toxic dating culture for everyone.
Women are on these platforms to find someone they might connect with. They’re not seeking explicit, rude, or obscene content.
So when a man posts that kind of content, regardless of his intentions, what he’s actually doing is sexually harassing women at scale.
Dating already feels unsafe for women. They’re already on guard for serial killers, predators, players, and scammers.
Now the feeling of threat and violation begins as soon as she opens the app. The more crude, rude, and offensive profiles she sees, the more she despairs of finding anyone decent… and the lower her opinion drops of Christchurch men.
Guys, if your drunken mate asks you to take a picture of him on the toilet, just say no. Not for the sake of your mate’s self-respect. But for the sake of your own.
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