Dating Red Flags - Christchurch Dating

Before you’ve even met:

Messages that make you uncomfortable

Jumps straight into sexting

Warns you they’re starting to fall in love with you (despite not knowing you)

Won’t pin down a time to meet

Shares inappropriately personal things

Asks for nudes

Asks you to prove you’re legit/real

Won’t share any details about their life (age, where they live, etc)

Sounds suspiciously like a bot/AI

What they say doesn’t add up

On a first date:

Touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable

Shows up late (and doesn’t apologize)

Hasn’t put any effort into looking nice for you

Doesn’t seem to want to be there

Doesn’t seem to want to know anything about you (aside from whether you’ll end up in bed)

Complains (about their exes/past relationships/the opposite sex)

Asks you inappropriately personal questions (like how much you earn)

Brushes off your questions (like what they’re looking for/what their expectations are)